If the $55 RAM has is from the same manufacturer and carries the same label as the $88, then they are identical.
Of the three product links you reference, all three are from the same manufacturer, OCZ Technology, but they are not the same memory. The first and third are very similar. There is a small difference in latency. The third link (newegg.com) is selling a product OCZ calls "Special Ops Edition." The latency is slightly lower (better) than the product at buy.com.
1st product (buy.com) latency = CL 4-4-4-15
3rd product (newegg) latency = CL 4-4-4-12
Latency is the main difference you are paying for. OCZ has also packaged the "Special Ops" product with a camouflage motif on the heat spreaders. (looks pretty silly to me, as if you need to hide memory sticks inside the computer).
The middle link is for a different type of memory called EPP (Enhanced Profile Protocol). Check with your computer manufacturer to see if EPP is compatible with your computer.
Here's what you want to need to know about RAM and what characteristics need to match.
1) Type (RDRAM, SDRAM, DDR, DDR2, EPP, etc) Type must match your other RAM and / or the capability of the motherboard.
2) Speed or frequency (333Mhz, 400 MHz, 667Mhz, 800MHz, etc). speed SHOULD match, but doesn't have to. If you install a slower RAM, all other RAM will slow down to match the slowest stick of RAM.
3) Rank: (single, dual) This is important for some high-end computers where you are installing multi-gigs of RAM. Consult the motherboard manufacturer specs for requirements.
4) ECC (error correcting code) or non-ECC. Most consumer level computers use non-ECC and are not capable of using ECC memory. ECC RAM is used for servers and high-end machines. If the computer has existing ECC memory, then the additional RAM memory must be ECC. A computer cabable of using ECC can use non-ECC, but all of the memory must be non-ECC.
5) Capacity (512MB, 1 GB etc). Make sure your system can support the additional RAM. All motherboards have a limit. An open slot does not always mean the motherboard can make use of more RAM.
6) Latency (2.0, 2.5, 3.0, etc). This is a measure of the time delay in storing or retreiving data from the RAM. The lower the number the better. Latency of new RAM should match the existing RAM, but this is not a requirement.