My ex husband is hacking my computers, emails and phone, how can i stop him?

Question

Hello, my soon to be ex-husband and I are separated and soon to divorce, Before we separated he was hacking my computer and doing all sorts of things to access my email accounts, He had a computer monitor on my computer and a spyware on my phone. We had a lot of marital issues and a lot mistrust,. Now that he is away he continues hacking me, he is out of state, yet know everything about me and my kids. He is a very abusive man and knows a lot of people with computer skills. He himself is and avid computer hacker. How can I stop him. It is very frustrating thing. Any good advice would be appreciated. He is probably reading this.

Answer 1

Well a start would be to change your internet browser so he can't track your internet usage or use stat analysis software to determine what you are doing, TOR is a browser which can help you become an anonymous internet user but you will need to change you computer habits as well if you use it, It just a recommendation.

It can be downloaded here: https://www.torproject.org/download/download-easy.html.en



You say he is using spy software on your phone?, This can be deactivated or de-registered as most spy software requires the consent of the user which he could have given if he got hold of your phone. Other recommendation / new number and new phone.



Is he a computer hacker or does the wanna be twit claim to be one?, If so (AKA: He is one and you know it or he knows people) then you will need to phone a friend (land line please) and schedule a chance to use their computer to set up a new internet account. On a site who takes your security seriously, choose from here: http://freedomhacker.net/list-of-secure-email-providers-that-take-privacy-serious/#.U1VHDqITRBE



The most extreme level of moving to complete anonymity would be to buy a new laptop and start from there, Install TOR for net browsing and by using a new machine that way any spy wear on that machine you are using now will be hopeless. But make sure you don't use any software disc's (Burned ones) or external hard drives or USB's that you used on this machine on the new one because certain program are like STD's they are just transferable from one machine to another via swapping a USB from one machine to another. The good thing with a laptop is that you can also turn off the wireless card easily than on a desktop computer with a case, why is it good? Because if you read about TOR they say certain things like if you want to view a pic JPEG,etc, do so when the net is off or you could reveal your destination to this wannabe twit, it would already be difficult since the machine is new. further install software to protect your privacy such as TrackMeNot which prevents Search engines building a profile about you. PLEASE NOTE get someone to read this an possibly set up your machine for you before you use it, I don't know how good you are with PC's but an IT friend would help.



Website with potential software: http://www.pcworld.com/article/237027/best_free_software_for_protecting_your_pc_and_your_privacy.html





You internet is another issue, you haven't specified whether or not you you are sing a line or a USB 3/4G card. If you are using a line its time to switch internet providers, this will prevent him doing anything with your machine with regards to details he might have about you from the ISP.



Deal with this douche!, No seriously girl you must and I'm talking legally not web warefare. If your kids are at risk then its up to you to take the steps necessary to make sure they safe and that their privacy is respected as well as your own. Shame hope this comes right, such a pitty some guys become so insecure, douchie and creepy.. Don't worry we not all like that :) Your love of your life is out there (Many of them infact, you just gotta find one.)



Message me if you need more info.



To fight a hacker you need to remember that its all strategy like chess, If you can be aware of what you doing and not slip up then you should be fine. This is however easier said than done if you are not a PC or tech boff.



Go well. x

Answer 2

email me at [e-mail]

I can help.... If you don't trust me then follow these steps.

1. Download Linux and install since you're probably new so I suggest Ubuntu, or Linux Mint

Ubuntu Linux: http://www.ubuntu.com/

Linux Mint: http://www.linuxmint.com/

The reason I suggest you get Linux, is because Windows is very insecure, and untrustworthy......

2. Get the TOR Browser(keeps you anonymous to everyone and is for windows and Linux)

TOR Browser Bundle: https://www.torproject.org/

TOR Vidalia: https://www.torproject.org/projects/vidalia.html.en

TOR Andriod: https://www.torproject.org/docs/android.html.en

3. Change all passwords, use unique passwords, I don't know how many times i've phished one password and been able to access their email, facebook, paypal with just that...... each account should have a unique password(write it down in a physical notepad)

Suggested password formats(use NATO Alphabet: VictorCharlieTango4356 or 231XrayZuluDelta656

4. Reset Router IP: http://www.wikihow.com/Reset-a-Linksys-Router

Email any questions, and I will answer them ASAP.

Good luck, and Godspeed lol

Answer 3

Go to your email account settings and change your password !

In fact, change all your passwords on all your sites.

Answer 4

restore the phone will remove the tracker app.

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Answer 6

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Answer 7

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Answer 8

Call the police , they can arrest him for illegal hacking & spyware.

Answer 9

You can also get assistance, from a professional computer tech. At my grocery store they have post its of people that can help you locally. I know what it is to be bullied online, some obvious person bugs me periodically here on answers. (and I am a little old lady??) Crazy is getting to be the rule these days.

Answer 10

on your computer you could try geting rid of the viruses by running.

superantispyware free- http://superantispyware.com/

malwarebytes free- https://www.malwarebytes.org/

run them and delete all of the viruses



Or you could bring it in to a computer store near you they are usually rip offs but they could restore and backup your computer document files for around 150$ I use to work at one. Idk if in your situation that is worth it or you could get a new computer.



for your phone depending on what phone Iphones dont have avast : / you have you could find a virus scan and run that to see if you have any viruses. Dont know much about phones i know you could bring it into your carrier and talk to them about it tho.



good luck! and about your e-mail you might need to make a new one if he put a file in your e-mail you cant really get rid of it just delete it and make a new one.